People who are true to their purpose and are really successful didn’t
always get there because they had the financial means to do so or were
just lucky enough to have been brought up in a confidence boosting
environment. There are actually a few common habits that have helped
them get to where they are. The best part is that these are habits that
anyone can attain!
1. They see challenges as opportunities
Most people interpret fears as obstacles and
tend to run away from them. People who live their purpose successfully
have developed the capacity to see fear as a sign of what they really
need to go for and put all their courage and energy into it.
2. They see life as a game.
Having this vision of life opens up space for
playfulness and creativity instead of limitation. This also cultivates
qualities of resilience, problem solving and confidence that helps them
take risks to get to the next big place.
3. Living the life they want is the only option.
They’re so committed to making their dreams a
reality that they banish any possibility of a backup plan
whatsoever from their mind. They don’t think things like, “If it doesn’t
work, I’ll just go get a job.”
4. They always speak their truth.
They’re able to speak it because they make a
conscious effort to connect to their truest desires, their inner voice,
and their spirituality without fear of judgment. This connection is
typically fostered through meditation, journaling, being mentored and
being surrounded by like minded-people.
5. They aren’t just dreamers: they act on their desires.
Instead of getting stuck in their dreams,
they snap right into action, no matter what it takes. Whether it’s
quitting a job, getting out of a relationship that holds them back,
investing in themselves or moving to a new location, they have the
courage to do it. They do this by listening to, and then acting on,
their intuition.
6. They expect and know that they deserve the best.
They expect that what they want is going to
happen as if it were an inner-knowing. They expect and feel they deserve
to earn well, do what they love, serve others using their gifts. The
secret is that they still expect the best even when they don’t have all
the answers as to how it’s going to happen.
7. They have no fear or guilt when asking for what they want.
Because they’re so connected to their
passions, they aren’t afraid to ask for what they want. In fact, they
understand that their success depends on others, so asking for what they
want is part of the deal. They set their boundaries and express their
needs without fear, guilt or shame. Best of all, this is a trait that
earns them respect from others.
8. They create their own rules.
They create their own rules instead of
fitting into society’s norms. They make decisions from a place of what
they want to have instead of what they think they can have. This gives
them the freedom to design their destiny.
9. They’ve learned to be comfortable being uncomfortable.
They don’t get stuck in having all the
answers, making things perfect or trying to gain comfort by controlling
everything. Instead, they’re aware that they’re not going to see the
next step until they make the decision to move forward despite the
discomfort.
10. They have teachers, mentors and role models.
Having teachers increases their awareness.
They clearly understand that each time they’re getting ready to pursue
their dreams all their limitations are going to come up to the surface
so that they can let go of them. Having role models and mentors helps
them quickly identify where they’re stuck so that they can immediately
change their results.
Now, go out there and start living life to the fullest!
